My wife and I get into fights about things like online reviews where my position is they don't matter if it doesn't work for you or if you don't like it. This, along with similar things, has lead to me consolidating my position into a phrase "life doesn't have an instruction manual". So the first half is me telling her (step by step) how to live without life's alleged instruction manual. 2nd half is me admitting I suck sometimes too and us planning out (step by step) how to reconnect and cultivate our relationship. In the end, the handbook of our lives is what we choose to make of it and we choose each other.
The Handbook - Lucky Spoon
i don't have all the answers you're looking for
don't ask me i know as much as you
life is not a journey you can read about online
knowledge's not experience so you'll just have to find
your way to go
first you take that handbook and throw it out
breathe and let it soak in what it's all about
let your feelings guide you down the path that's in your heart
and even if you're wrong you know you're further from the start
you are alive
[Chorus]
But the words I read in your eyes
and the songs sung in your smile
are the writings and the music
how I want to live my life
I know you’re not the only one who’s feeling beat
And I confess that love is a two way street
Emotion has its place but can get away from me
I need help too
So let’s choose a day to set aside and reconnect
Put away our cell phones and internet
Rest easy in the company of truth that will provide
Reflect on what’s important and re-prioritize
To simplify
[Chorus 2]
Cause the words I read in your eyes
and the songs sung in your smile
are the writings and the music how
I want to live my life
and the way we unify
reflects what is inside
and together we will choose
the handbook of our lives